Exactly, nobody, including me, have said its ok, yet, as usual, you are trying to argue that I have.
You are naive, everyone sees that. You have naive ideas about everything you post about, ideas that can only come from someone who has led a very sheltered or comfortable existence. That's fine, fair play to you, but it blinds you to how everyone is not the same (unless they are immigrants, they get a pass from you), and some people may have had experiences that you couldn't even imagine, and may react to those experiences in a way that is outside your bubble.
You claim that "noone agrees that is ok or understandable" is, I believe incorrect - no one says it is OK, but I would guess that many would believe it to be understandable, especially in the light of what has emerged about Simon Harris in recent weeks. Anger is sometimes understandable.